Rediscovering Core Values

For people of my generation, values were never something we talked about. They were part of everyday life. We learned them at home, at school, at work, and in the community. We did not analyse them. We showed them by how we behaved.

In my daily life, it is important to do what feels normal to me. I was raised to do certain things at certain times and in a certain way. For example, I clear the snow in front of my house so that people do not slip. I do this without thinking. Respect is normal for me. I don’t need to think about it.

A good day for me is simple. I want no stress and no worries. I want to feel happy and be kind to others. I believe this is what every person wants. It really can be that easy.

I get angry or sad when people do not respect each other. Lying, being unfair, and hurting others are things I cannot accept.

For me, a good person gives a positive first impression. This makes it easier to stay in contact and build a relationship. Being on the same wavelength helps.

I say “this is not right” when someone does not mirror my values. This feeling is instinctive and comes from my life experience.

My parents did not teach me life with words. They taught me by setting an example. What they showed me is still part of who I am today.

I do not want to tell younger people what they should understand. I only hope they have good role models in their lives.

I feel calm and comfortable when people are decent to each other. I respect people who respect other people.

The values my parents lived are in my DNA, but learning never stops.